ZINDAGI _ KIRAYE KA GHAR

Abhi kuch mahine Pehle ki hi baat hai.. Pati dev ko nayi naukri mili dusre sheher me aur Hume shift hona tha kuch hi hafto me.
Aaj Kal ki technology bhi kya khoob hai.. Duniya ke ek kone me baithe baithe dusre kone me ek ghar dhund lia... Google maps k badolat us ghar k aas pas ki sab suvidhao ke baare me research bhi kar lia. Bete ke liye school ka option bhi soch lia.. Aur khub sare sapno ko aankho me basa kar Humne ek ghar rent pe book kar lia.
Hume Mumbai Se Sirf apni zarurat ka saman leke jana tha..ek ghar me Rehne ke liye jo bhi comforts chahiye AC se leke washing machine tak.. Sab kuch us ghar me Pehle se hi tha.. Dheere dheere apne ghar se dur Jane ka time aagaya.. Aur wo time bohot emotional tha.. Akhir bohot si yaadien bohot sari feelings us ghar se attached thi..
Hum jo mehsus kar rahe the wo mixed emotions the.. Apne comfort zone se dur Jane ka dard aur nayi jagah explore karne ki excitement.. Finally hum naye sheher me naye ghar me aaye.. Dekhte hi behaad khush hue.. Ghar wakai bohot sundar tha. Jab ghar walo ko.. dosto ko.. Ghar tasveere bheji to sab hi bade khush hue.
Eventually hum settle down hone lage.. Sara ghar apne tarike se arrange kia.. Rent ke ghar me yu to sab kuch tha lekin usko apna banane ke liye apne tarike ke saman chahiye tha.. Kabhi kuch to kabhi kuch.. 
Ek din yu hi Sunday subah maine pati ji se kaha.. Suno ji aaj supermarket jate hai.. Mujhe na ek vaccum cleaner kharidna hai aur naye bathroom set bhi chahye..
Laptop pe kaam karte hue pati dev ne meri baat ignore kar di.. Par mai bh kaha chup Rehne wali thi.. Wapas wahi baat repeat ki.. Is baar thoda zor se. Aab to laga bas gusse ka volcano explode ho hi jayega.. Aur wahi hua.. Bole chillate hue.." Kiraye ka ghar hai.. Kuch pata nahi kab tak rahenge aur tumko sab kuch leke ikatha karna hai.." 
Ye sun mai chup hogai aur kuch nahi kaha.. Supermarket Jane ka idea bhi drop kar dia.. Us Raat mai theek se so nahi pai.. Isiliye nahi ki vaccum cleaner nahi mila.. Par isiliye kyuki mere mann ko ye baat kahi sochne pe majbur kar gai ki zindagi bhi to kiraye ke ghar ki tarah hai.. Kab chor ke jana pade koi nahi janta.. Phir bhi humari demands humari tamanna har din nayi hai.. Cycle se scooter.. Scooter se car.. Phir airplane.. Bas chale to hum space craft bhi khareed le.. Itna bada scope hai humari demands ka.. Jis tarah hum naye experiences aur nayi learnings ke liye apne ghar ko chor kar kabhi hostel kabhi PG to kabhi kiraye ke ghar me aakar rehte hai.. Kya usi tarah humari ye life aache karma karne.. Humanity practice karne.. Ek dusre ko support karne ke liye nahi mili..? 
Apne asli ghar ka pata to hum sab ko malum hai.. Waps jana hai ye bhi malum hai.. Luggage capacity bhi pata hai.. Par Phir bhi.. Hume materialistic wealth se zyada pyaar hai.. Kitne bewakuf hai hum wo sab ikatha kar rahe hai jo yahi chor jayenge.. Aur jo sath le jayenge for example humare karma uski Hume parwah nahi.. 
Har baar jab hum is duniya me aate hai apne karma apne learnings ke Saath aate hai.. Shayad yahi reason hai jo ye sach samjh jata hai wo arjun ban pata hai.. Aur jo bhul jata hai wo karna... Bhishma pitamah ya guru Dronacharya ki tarah sach jante hue bhi andhkar me reh jayenge.. 
Hum me se bohot log duniya me bohot kuch afford kar sakte hai.. Aur kayi ase hai jo ek Waqt Ka khana bhi nahi kha pate.. Jis tarah ek family me koi member bohot intelligent hota hai aur koi apni padhai me bohot struggle karta hai.. Ek bhai ka business bohot aacha hai to wo dusre bhai ko support karta hai kyu..? Kyuki wo uska parivar hai uski family hai. Hume lagta hai ki Hume paise kama ke.. Nayi nayi cheeze leke khushi milti hai.. Par sach to ye hai ki Insaan hamesha apne parivar ki khushi se sabse zyada khush hota hai.. Wo apne parivaar ke liye sab kar sakta hai.. Ase hi wo apne neighbours liye.. Apni city ke liye apni country ke liye bh emotional connect rakhta hai.. Aur "vasudev kutumbhkam" hi sachai hai.. Ye sari duniya ek bada parivaar hai.. Jis din hum ise accept kar lenge.. Is duniya me violence...selfishness khatam hojayegi.. Hogi to Sirf karuna.. Kindness.. Jisse hum behtar Insaan banenge.. It will make us more humble.. 
Agar kisi ko takleef me dekh ke apka dil uska Dard mehsus kar sake to samjh lijiye ki apney apne dil me karuna ka bej rop diya hai.. Aur kisi vidvaan ne kaha hai ki daya hi dharam ka mul hai.. Aur dharam hi mukti hai.. 
Isiliye kiraye ke is ghar me khushi se rahiye.. Yaha apke comfort ka sab saman hai.. Bhagwan ne ek nanhi chidya ka bhi comfortable arrangement kia hai.. To aap to unki supreme creation.. Insaan hai.. 
Is life me experiences gain kijiye.. Ek dusre ki help kijiye.. Humanity ko value kijiye.. Yahi to humare priced possessions hai.. Jab kiraye ke ghar se Jane ka time aayega to baki sab restricted saman ki tarah isi ghar me reh jayega.. ❤️ Ye hota aaya hai aur hota rahega..!! Ghar ka lutf uthaiye.. Enjoy kijiye.. Par sach bhi Yaad rakhiye ki zindagi kiraye ka ghar hai.. ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ˜Š❤️

Comments

  1. megha jamb...3 February 2020 at 04:35

    Nice read. written very honestly! The words are very true, we value things that don't hold much value in reality :)
    Keep it up!

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  2. Unknown3 February 2020 at 17:27

    Wonderful ❣️ thoughts dear Kanika

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  3. Reshma Udhani3 February 2020 at 19:23

    Very true....and honest effort to make the message clear ๐Ÿ‘Œ

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